“As you think so shall you be! Since you cannot physically experience another person, you can only experience them in your mind.
Conclusion: All of the other people in your life are simply thoughts in your mind. Not physical beings to you, but thoughts. Your relationships are all in how you think about the other people of your life. Your experience of all those people is only in your mind. Your feelings about your lovers come from your thoughts.
For example, they may in fact behave in ways that you find offensive. However, your relationship to them when they behave offensively is not determined by their behavior, it is determined only by how you choose to relate to that behavior. Their actions are theirs, you cannot own them, you cannot be them, you can only process them in your mind.”
— Wayne Dyer
Most of us don't realize how powerful relationships are and how huge an impact they have on our lives. I am sure you have heard someone say, "I love you." It may sound like mere words to us, but they are not.
Most definitely, I like to envisage that inside every individual, there is an emotional love tank. If the person feels loved by the partner, the individual expresses satisfaction. But if the love tank is empty and the person does not feel loved, he or she will accommodate internal struggles. It is extremely important that you learn how to love yourself effectively before starting an emotional relationship.
Relationships are wonderful when established in a proper way. A right relationship at the right time can actually be a life changing experience. Relationships are meant to encourage, edify, and give confidence to those involved.
In successful relationships there are no quick fixes or fast-track methods to satisfaction and happiness. Pay attention to your partner when he or she expresses emotions. Show interest by asking questions until you understand.
When communicating, talk opening about problems and listen to one another. Respect each other's opinion. Communication is vital in creating and maintaining a relationship. Your level of communication affect how you solve problems, unlock what you really want, and the level of trust you can give.
Lack of communication in a relationship create misunderstanding and non-essential discussions. A relationship that fails to communication will never have a happy ending. When you fail to communicate in your relationship from the beginning, you will never have the time to communicate again.
For a relationship to grow, you must learn to place the most essentials above the non-essentials . Knowing what you really want in a relationship is very significant. You must define your relationship because You can never tell who to fall in love with. So when you find someone, the first and most important thing to do is Pray.
Have you ever pondered on the importance of the saying, "Prevention is better than cure?" I would always say this, "Marriage Is Purpose." Because we can not control love and determine the blues it will play, Pray about it and watch. A wrong relationship that leads to marriage can terminate a glorious destiny. Put this in mind, Love has Eyes. So Watch and Pray.