SEVEN MENTALITIES TO AVOID IF YOU WANT TO BECOME SUCCESSFUL.

The words 'change your mindset, change your life' sounds so easy, yet many find it difficult to get things right. One truth is, living with limiting beliefs is different from living in confusion. Living with limiting beliefs make you believe you can't. While living in confusion fix you in a state of not been able to identify what is right for you.

These things are so due to how we accept and manage the things that come into our lives. It is simply mentality that differentiates how we leverage in life.

What is Mentality?
Mentality is the characteristic way of thinking of a person or thing. The capacity for intelligent thought. Dan Lok, a millionnaire entrepreneur, who failed in 13 business ventures over three years said in a motivational talk that in order for a person to succeed in life, you must stop hanging around poor people.

According to Lok, you must intentional avoid certain things to break through in life. His classification of Poor in this context is not about a person that is living poor or in poverty. Rather it has to do with level of reasoning. Dan listed seven things to intentionally avoid in order to be successful in life.

Believe me, i agree completely with Lok's point of view in this regard because i can really relate to what he was talking about. I really do understand his point because i have met alot of the likes he spoke about and that is why i decided to share this points. Below are the seven things you must avoid for you to become successful in life.

1. People Who Are Poor In Spirit.
People walk around all day looking defeated. They don't want to border trying. They've made mistakes, failed so because of their bad experiences they gave up. They believe that since they've failed it can't be done and end up becoming a discouraging factor to anyone that hang around them. People like this are poor in the spirit don't hang around them.

2. People who are Poor In Love.
Most people don't love themselves and since they don't love themselves they can't give you love. Love is one powerful force that would make a person be patiently enough to help another or key into a person's vision and ensure to drive the vision with strength, resilience and focus. If you at any point notice a person does not love you, separate from him or her. The person will be a danger to your growth or success in life.

3. People Who Are Poor In Wisdom.
As a human don't ever engage with people who don't have interest in growing. People who don't talk about growing and love to act as though they know too much when they don't really know. It is tasteless wasting time with them. There is a difference betwewn knowledge and wisdom. Knowledge is knowing what you can do. While wisdom is knowing when or how not to do it.

4. People Who Are Poor In Character.
These kind of people lie, cheat, and they lack integrity. They are very cunning and never straight forward. They will tell you about all the things they can do but they can never be trusted because they will never do any. Instead, they look for a way to kill your vision. If you notice anyone like this around you stay away from such person.

5. People Who Are Poor in Habit.
These kinds are lazy, they procastinate, they value comfort instead freedom and success. They are never ready to get engage in life. They just want to rely on others. You have to use wisdom around this kind of people. Be careful!

6. People Who Are Poor in Attitude.
A negative attitude is more contiguous than positive ones. These kinds are dream destroyers, destiny killers. They are always negative. They never see anything good in whatever you do or want to do. They tell people negative things about you. They are always jealous and feeling like they are better than you and should be the one doing what you do. Stay away from them.

7. People Who Are Poor In Finance.
These kinds will never encourage you with money. They never have money to support a vision. Rather the little you have they want to collect it from in order to kill your dream. They don't like to talk about how to make money. They don't like to share any idea that will generate money. They are very self centred and selfish. Don't hang around them.

The only way to fix this is to follow the rules of life. Yes, this is life. There are some truth that sounds tough but you just have to follow suit if you must break out and break into success. Success is an intentional decision. On the paths and roads to success there things you must let go and believe it, the list of people above must go if you really want to be successful or fulfill purpose in life. 

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