KISSING

Just because someone kiss you doesn't mean he loves you. People who hurt you do so because you are carnally minded. If you are dating a man and all you do most times is taking off your cloths, having sex with him and kissing him and so you think you both are in love, sweety you are living in your head. 

There is no relationship in whatever you are having with him. So many misinterpret this fact and misquote it to be love. You can not see clearly and think straight because you are carnal. 

Personally, I kiss a man because I want to kiss him. I don't kiss a man because I love him. What am I saying? You don't just see a person and say you love the person. Yes, you can lust at first sight and that feelings always want to make you react to your immediate emotion. The first thing that usually comes to mind is to Kiss the person.

Because you end up Kissing passionately is not equivalent to love. Most times we kiss base on our response to the immediate burning passion. Relationship is knowing the extent at which you can relate and what impact it will have in your life. But when you start taking off your cloths and kissing all the time, and you are still thinking is love, sweety wake up! That fantasy is pure delusion. 

You need to learn self control that even when you do certain things while dating, you know when to say stop and you should always as a lady be in control. Always be the one to call the Stop! 

Know when to ask yourself questions like, what am I doing? Is this a relationship? Most importantly, know that because you kiss a man doesn't mean he should take you to bed.

 Always remember that Judas betrayed Jesus with a kiss. Kiss can be deceitful sometimes. Many marriages are breaking up today because the couples misunderstood kissing to be love. Don't be carnally minded. Be purpose driven. Before calling an affair a relationship, be sure of what you want. Know if the person can give you what you want. Try and identify if you see your reflection in that person and if you will be able to impact your life in that relationship. 

Don't date because you just want to date. It makes some men see you as cheap even when you are not. Set a standard and if anyone tries to break your standard instead of trying to fit his and yours together, please sweety press the Stop button. Don't ever get carried away in an unfruitful relationship. Always remember, Marriage is purpose. If you miss it, you may never get it right again.